How do you even start a game in socom confrontation?

I bought the game a week ago and I havent even been able to play yet... I join servers and people are there just talking and dont start games, then I join a game which already started but when I click to be ready in the lobby it disconnects me... I dont even know how the game looks like yet.|||If you have downloaded all the patches, you should be good to go. try going into a server that is'nt very full. I would just green up and wait till the game starts. They had a new patch that had to be downloaded in the last couple of days if you don't have it yet get it. If all else fails go to playstation website and look through the forum for socom confrontation. I wish I coupld help you more.|||That is the game the people confront with each other and solve their differences using rational debate.